This peice of Philosophy was past on to me by a wise man called Daryl Cornelius…
A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty goldfish bowl and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was. The students laughed.
The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. “Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize, this is your life. The rocks are the important things your family, your partner, your children, your health things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles represent the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff.
“If you put the sand into the jar first, there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all of your time and enrgy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical check-ups. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, fix the house.”
“Take care of the big things first, the things that really matter. Set your
priorities. The rest is just sand.”
A student took the jar which the other students and the professor agreed was full and proceeded to pour in a glass of wine. Of course, wine filled the remaining spaces within the jar, making the jar truly full.
Our moral of this tale is:
Every one of us is that student and no matter how full our life is there is always room
for a glass of wine.
Anonymous…. And Thank you Daryl : )